Sat 9 Jul 2005
Where the hell do people get off contacting MY closest friends to bitch about me, (admittedly to me) hoping and expecting that my friends will take his side and come to me to tell me off?! What the HELL is that? My ex has NO rapport with my friend, he’s met her twice and both times, very briefly, and he thinks he can write her long-ass emails out of nowhere manipulating events, as if she weren’t there with me thru all the crap and KNEW step-by-step what was going on with me, and win her over to his side so that she would tell me off for him?! He’s got to be delusional AND insane! And what a huge freaking ego! Well, what can I expect from someone who has no loyalties of his own? I am just…incredulous, and incredibly offended.
Update 11:32pm:
Called him to say if he’s got beef with me, to bring it to me, not to my friends because does he realize how retarded he looks bitching about me to my friends who KNEW everything that he’d done AS they were being done to me? He said he does have beef with me but doesn’t want to deal with it. But he wants to throw it in my friend’s lap and have me deal with it indirectly? How obscenely chickenshit is this?! Man, it’s been a long time since I’ve cussed like this.
well, this would have been my response to him if i had chosen to send it out:
“i don’t think your extensive rave and rant even deserves a response -however, i wish to address a few issues before bringing a permanent close to this matter.
first, i am genuinely disappointed that you have grossly underestimated my relationship with cindy. anyone who thinks they can so readily alter our loyalty is in for a serious defeat.
second, i am shocked that you thought it would only take a few lamenting emails to manipulate my outlook for this situation.
having said all that, i think it is unproductive to continue any communication regarding this matter. i do, however, maintain my former position that hopefully in time, you will feel better.
very truly yours…”