Wed 17 Aug 2005
Boys are funny. They play these games. They want to pursue you, and the moment you decide, “Okay fine, let’s give this a try,” and you reciprocate their interest, they totally turn on you. They don’t return your calls, they’re too busy for you, they’re aloof. So then you say, “All right then, if you’re that hard to get, then you’re just not gonna get gotten,” and you lose interest and do your own thing, and suddenly they want to know what you’re doing, who you’re doing, whether you want to go out, and they call you all the time.
Where’re all the men at?
I was told, the basic rule would be guys will usually pursue after seeing the green light flashing.
For those guys who love playing games, I would prefer to stay away from the game, unless you are into that type too. If so, be the one to lead the game. But it’s just not for me.
I think there are still some ‘normal’ guys in the market. Just have to wait patiently and seek the right one.
I don’t play their game, either. I’ve never pursued. Depending on how much I like the guy, I may make a last effort to let him know I’m still open to something, and then I pull back and give him his space. If he doesn’t come to me, he just plain doesn’t like me enough, and that is not the foundation I want to build a relationship on.
‘If he doesn’t come to me, he just plain doesn’t like me enough…’ This is so so true. To me it’s a mutual thing, if he doesn’t like me enough, I don’t see a point I should devote more liking for him. It takes two to get going.