Wed 7 Sep 2005
I have been so spoiled lately. I love being a girl. I’m not a feminist at all. I like old-fashioned gender-related courtesy. I love my friends surprising me by going out of their way for me, a green tea frapp w/ boba here, a grilled chicken and Spanish rice lunch delivered to my courtroom there. A phone call informing me of a great laptop deal, a comforting hug, compliments and acknowledgment of my hard work.
Is this the good karma that’s balancing out the bad experiences before?
Probably….but I would say maybe you didn’t realize it at that time coz you were too engaged in dealing with those matters.
Hmm. It’s strange that I would’ve not noticed people who are so amazingly good to me, especially if I were going thru a rut. More likely, I didn’t have as many people going out of their way for me because I was always so unhappy and therefore so unapproachable.
You’re right. I had a similar experience in this aspect with a friend who’s currently unhappy. But I approached him coz I know he seriously needed some help. Usually I’m not that brave in approaching ppl whom are putting up a ‘don’t get close to me’ look. But I’m glad I made the attempt in the end.
Add to your point, some people actually care for you at that time but just didn’t dare to go up to you and also some may know it’s pointless to reach someone unreachable, might as well let them opens up later.
I would have done nice things for you.
…and the karma continues. =)
Thanks, everybody.
I still want to do nice things for you
Are you hitting on me via my blog?!
I would never do something so crass, can’t a secret admirer say something nice
Hrm, not to jump in on the secret admirer, but I think it’d be best to either be more elaborate on the blog, or just leave the comments to real life. It doesn’t translate so well on the website, in my opinion at least.
See Cindy, I knew the positivity would shine through eventually. It was just a matter of time. Good to hear that your friends are treating you well.
Point taken, would not want to upset anybody