Coming out of the gym 45 mins ago, I ran into the floor manager there who stopped me to chat. We have a bit of a history; I used to think he was cute when he was a personal trainer and then we started talking and he wanted to hang out. I was fine with it as long as it was on a friendly basis. The guy was an octopus and I found him such a social spaz that I stopped contact with him altogether and stopped going to that gym. Now that I’m training my coworker at the gym and she doesn’t have membership to the other gym I had been going to at lunch, I’m back to dealing w/him. He again asked for another shot, having complimented me to death that I’m “hot.” (In my rat-shit look.) I said I’m dealing with too much as it is to handle anything other than friendship. He was agreeable, and I said, “Wait. As long as ‘hanging out as friends’ isn’t the same ‘hanging out as friends’ as you handled it last time.” He said, “No, I learned my lesson from last time!” Maybe this isn’t a good idea at all, but I don’t want to be a bitch to him because to train my coworker, I’m gonna have to be at that gym A LOT now. Maybe I’ll just let him and this other guy who works at the gym who started following me around and talking to me yesterday (and again did so today) duke it out.