Sat 10 Sep 2005
Here’s a thought.
Maybe he’s just gotta be a good guy, whom I respect, who makes me happy.
The rest of it, we can work out as we go. Respect and happy is so inclusive.
Sat 10 Sep 2005
Here’s a thought.
Maybe he’s just gotta be a good guy, whom I respect, who makes me happy.
The rest of it, we can work out as we go. Respect and happy is so inclusive.
I think that’s a good thought, at least for the moment. 🙂
I agree…a friend of mine told me after my first heartbreak that maybe I shouldn’t be looking for the tallest, most athletic, best looking, smartest guy…I should be with a nice guy that treats me well and everything else will fall into place. I’m marrying my best friend and I would never know how well he compliments me if I kept looking for someone that fit my mold for a perfect guy. Anyway, enjoy the rest of your weekend!
Jade, I think this is definitely a good concept for me at the moment.
Tina, congratulations. You’re right, sometimes you’re so busy looking for the best, most impressive resume that you miss the most experienced and flexible candidate for the job.
Yay, so there are girls out there who look for “nice” guys (referring to your friend Tina. I didn’t want anyone to confuse what I said with possible incest, ew.)
I was starting to get scared; thinking I was doomed to be single for the rest of my life. (well, that’s an exaggeration)
Cindy, respect and the ability to make you happy are definitely two of the main things I’d look for in a person that I’d want to date/marry. I agree with you 100% that after that, everything may, or may not fall in place. But it’s best not to look for that “perfect” person. There is no such thing as perfection anyways, right?
Mark – I thought earlier you were all for my list of qualifications. =D
I think I hit a milestone on my weekend, Cindy. Ever since Friday, my whole world’s been twisted around just a little bit. Not completely upside down, but definitely different. It’s been very good; I had a self-realization of myself and things have just been going amazingly well. I am beyond ecstatic. I will have to explain this to you better in my blog, or in an email. Sorry. It’s too much to type right now.
Back to your point, I guess I’m a hypocrite of sorts, but I definitely, I’m 100% sure that I’m seeing eye to eye with you on this. Trust me. If there’s one thing I learned about life, nothing is perfect, and even if something brings you down, something positive can always be taken out of it. Balance is everything. Positivity should rule over negativity. It’s just the way of life I suppose…