Mon 8 Jan 2007
PackRaticus ByProducticus
Posted by cindy under Cilly Stuff , Reminisces , Work Crap at 8:21 am[11] Comments
I have this problem where I can’t throw stuff away. I remember where every little note or memoir came from, and I sit there and reminisce everytime I try to clean the house. I’m running out of room. I don’t know how one person fills an entire house and 6 closets with crap. This past week, I finally gritted my teeth and threw some stuff away. And then I go visit my parents for the weekend and my mom dumps 4 boxes of crap on me. They’re remodeling their entire house so my mom’s doing massive clearing, and figures I attach enough sentimental value to stuff that I’d want to retain every vocab index card I made in high school, every Chinese School exam paper, all my Chinese workbooks, every doodle of dream outfits I drew in elementary school, every hair doodad I ever had (and I grew up in the 80s, so you know about THOSE hair doodads — most of them plastic, many of them fuschia), every funky eraser and cute writing utensil that I collected since I was alive, makeshift ghetto sticker books, a Halloween mask cut-out book. Believe me, being a packrat is not a trait you just suddenly acquire in mid-life, so the 4 boxes are packed just from the first 10 years of my life. I even uncovered my Slam Book and had a good laugh over the entries written in there.
Now there are boxes and boxes in my car as well as in my house. What do I do?!
P.S. The reason I write about this is because I tried to clear some of the clutter by bringing them to work, and now I’m looking helplessly at my work L-desk covered with stuffed animals, a cat sitting with a fishing pole, 15 or so little gumball machine aliens, photos, and newly added from my Christmas Present Collection ’06, a scented flameless candle from Mr. W’s brother and a hamster running on a wheel powered by my typing speed via USB from Mr. W.
*giggle* The hamster is running his little legs off. The wheel is actually making a whirring sound as he races with my fingers.
What is the likelyhood that you would clear out stuff and then your Mom would give you more. I love going through my childhood stuff, except my Mom wouldn’t give it to me but does offer copies.
Maybe that’s cuz your mom’s a packrat. My mom’s an extreme non-packrat and my dad and I used to always blame her when something’s missing.
Dad: Where’s my hat?
Mom: How would I know? Where’d you last put it?
Dad: I’m pretty sure I last left it in the garage.
Mom: Then go look in the garage! Why’re you asking ME?
Dad: Cuz you always throw everything away! So you must’ve thrown my hat out. *rifling through garbage can*
Mom: Grrr! You always blame me for your missing things! Why don’t you put it away so you don’t lose it and blame ME?!
Dad: *pulling out hat from garbage* See, I TOLD you you threw it away! I knew it!
Mom: Oh. Well, if you’d put it away properly in the first place, I wouldn’t have accidentally thrown it away!
My Mom IS a packrat. She has boxes and boxes of stuff in her room and we have convinced her to clean through them, so we won’t have to when she passes. I know that sounds gloomy but after going through my Dad’s stuff and he wasn’t a packrat, we can’t image going through all her stuff and thankfully she understands.
She even had boxes of long twigs so when she ever wanted to make wreaths she could.
my mom constantly nags me to clear out my drawers and my closet of old things. once i clear out a few bags of old stuff, she takes out items she considers “still good” and thus negates my cleaning out.
then she nags me all over again to clear out more stuff.
sheesh
I’m the same way with keeping stuff… But when I do get tired of it all the junk and throw stuff away — inevitably what I threw out was exactly what I needed soon after!
Vanessa – I never kept twigs just *in case* I decide to make wreathes one day, but I did use to keep cardboard *in case* I needed a hard backing for something, or needed a disposable cover in case, like, I needed to spraypaint something. Or make a science project. Hey, I said I USED TO!
Mel – that’s so funny about your mom. I never knew anyone to be both the clearinghouse person AND the packrat person.
James – see, THAT’S what I’m afraid of! But you kept my photo from high school, so you must’ve thought that one day you may need it for something. For what, I wonder. In case I run for politics or get rich and famous and you wanna show the media what I USED to look like and therefore have your 5 mins of fame? (Uh, that’s not why *I* keep old photos…)
My mom is a major packrat and will pat all other packrats to shame. It’s actually pretty scary how filled up their house is with junk, boxes, stuff they bought but never used. It’s to the point of dangerous. Unfortunately I have alot of the pack rat tendencies in me too.
“This past week, I finally gritted my teeth and threw some stuff away. And then I go visit my parents for the weekend and my mom dumps 4 boxes of crap on me.”
that made me laugh outloud..haha!!
Lol… OK so I still have your photo… You still have my photo from back then and I guess we can call it even!
Although we need new photos!
That’s hilarious picturing your desk. I don’t know what to tell ya about being a packrat. I throw everything away!! Sometimes things I shouldn’t have. (BILLS!!)