Thu 11 Jan 2007
Okay, I’m feeling guilty. Extremely guilty. I have not gone to jujitsu this entire semester. I didn’t enroll, either, but I’m still on their mailing list and the emails keep urging attendance, saying the dojo is in danger of shutting down this semester due to lack of interest. I feel horrible, but I’m still not interested. It was something I did to expand my physical defense/combat knowledge and to take up time while I was single. Mr. W takes up most of my evenings now, and I enjoy that. I think he likes me being his little shadow when he runs his errands.
I also told a coworker that I’d take up belly dancing with her instructor this session. I think the first class is today. I was planning to go, but now Mr. W springs on me that he’s planning to buy a Prius today, so now I wanna be there.
Oh no, am I turning into The Girlfriend and not Cindy anymore? 🙁
*** Addendum ***
I just got a call from the coworker, who’s all nasal sounding at home. She’s been out sick for a week, and apologizes but she can’t make the class today. I’m off the hook! Guilt’s gone!
*** Additional Addendum ***
Mr. W just called. He’s leaving early to go to the dealership to get the car, since the salesperson he’d been negotiating with leaves at 6p. So I guess I actually could have made belly dancing. Oh well. The jurors buzzed that they have a verdict now, anyhow.
well you could always find some hobbies you both enjoy…running? he could do jujitsu with u.
i know one hobby you should do on your own though – write that novel you always mention. hehe
Well, I always have options – we can become movie gurus, I need to finish my quilt so we can do that together, you could come to practice w/ me on Sat & Sun, we could be gym buddies, or you could go back to school with me 🙂 The options are endless! ïŠ
i think that you should be happy that you are happy. maybe you need to find a new hobby that you and mr. w can do together. i personally would suggest competitive tv watching.
Mel – he refused jujitsu. Something about the time. I think he just doesn’t want to get thrown by his girlfriend who’s like a foot shorter than him. heh, heh. And re the novel: ack, more guilt!
Vanessa – wow, you’re gonna get so sick and tired of me. 🙂
Wilco – I YAM happy that I’m happy. The peace and contentment is definitely not something I take for granted. I was telling him yesterday how I love that I’m with him. As for the TV thing, Mr. W hates TV. *ducking as brownie points fall*
Bat & I are working on finding things we want to do together and still have our separate hobbies. I love being THE GIRLFRIEND. It’s the most fun I’ve had!!
Nah, that won’t happen!
Yah, it’s too bad that he doesn’t wanna do jujitsu. It is a bit humiliating to get thrown around by your girlfriend who’s about 100 lbs lighter than you. Then you’d have guys saying “Dude, your girlfriend can kick your ass!”
competitive tv watching!!!!! Now THAT is something I can do with you two if you ever want to involve more people in on your new hobbies.
I knew I liked Wilco.