Thu 16 Jul 2009
Mr. W and I got back from Vegas on Saturday just in time to meet up with Vanessa and Jay at our house and the four of us had a great time sipping beer (the guys) and sangria (the girls plus Mr. W) at the Lake while Johnny Lang conducted his concert there. I have no idea who Johnny Lang is, even now. I was too busy chatting with my friends! Since we weren’t around to reserve center-stage spots this time, we didn’t have a great view of the stage and I didn’t take photos. I probably should have. After the concert, Vanessa and Jay came back to our house and hung out in our backyard on our new round outdoor loungebed, and told us stories of their current house renovation projects. They bought a home for a great price, but the work they’re putting into it made me dizzy. Mr. W and I talked about it a bit afterwards, were impressed with and happy for the couple’s home progress, but we were thankful we didn’t have to go through that with our house a year ago. I’m just not that handy of a person, and Mr. W had other priorities at the time (such as moving us in and getting married). Vanessa took photos of our entertainment backyard for “inspiration” as they start to design theirs.
Now, on to yesterday, my first furlough day. In the current world-wide financial straits and the California budget crisis, the Courts are trying to stave off lay-offs by spreading around the dollar cuts earlier rather than later. In our county, the courts will shut down most of their functions the 3rd Wednesday of every month. The categories of employees who are not exempt from this budget cut (me) have that day off without pay. Of course there was audible dissent among people about this, but I’d personally rather do my part and lose a day of pay a month than have 1/4 of our workforce laid off next year. Plus I looked very forward to my free day. This first one, Mr. W (who still hasn’t returned to work yet after his mid-February heart episode) and I met up with Dwaine and a friend of his, Sophie, at Huntington Beach.
We were all off work for different reasons. Mr. W is on workman’s comp/IOD; I’m on furlough; Sophie played hookie by calling in sick; Dwaine lied and said he was out of the office in meetings all day with clients and pseudo-worked off his Blackberry phone. It was a blast! We met at Sharkeez Bar on Main Street, had a few drinks, Dwaine claimed he could pull off wearing my girlie sunglasses and still look cool and I said the only way he could look cool in those glasses would be if two girls were also in the photo looking interested in him, and I was WRONG. See for yourself.
Hi, here’s me with my sensitive friend, Dwaine. He was at the Pride Parade in San Francisco last month.
After I retrieved my sunglasses from Dwaine, we laid out on the beach for awhile.
See that red bikini behind Dwaine’s right shoulder? That’s the best photo of me you’re gonna see from the entire beach day.
Dwaine decided to come by us and do a fobby pose.
Friends don’t let friends be fobs alone.
I stayed out of the water as ankle-deep in I realized I did NOT want to freeze my goose bumps right off my body, but the three of them frolicked in the waves for a bit. Back on the sand, Dwaine waged war with a bee as Sophie and I prepared to run should the bee dig its way out of the giant sand pile Dwaine pushed on it.
Of course Dwaine kept digging the bee back out just to see where it was, but when it came out he’d freak out, pour more sand over it, and pound it with a fist or a towel. And then he’d dig it out again to see if it survived, and wig out when it did.
I innocently dug around for seashells that Dwaine could take back to his mom.
After a quick and very delicious dinner at Dukes off the pier, we went our separate ways.
It’s too bad not ALL my furlough days could be like this. I already know this, because I went ahead and scheduled two dental appointments on two upcoming furloughs. *sigh* It was fun while it lasted.
For the record, it was a draw! The bee never stung me and I never killed the bee. Aside from a few tears my manhood is still firmly intact. I think we all learned a valuable lesson about the frailty of life. That goodness nobody got hurt.
It was starting to look precarious when, after the first time you pounded over the sand, I saw a stinger wriggle its way out and point up.
Yeah, he was fighting dirty. Thanks for getting my back and pointing that out. @#$&* BEE!!!
I couldn’t have you die on me. THEN who’ll guest star on all my blog posts? I should do a search for your name right now on this sidebar and see how many posts come up.
Yeah, there’s no substitute for the original. Andrae makes a pretty good stunt double, but he can’t deliver my lines with the charisma that I do!
Andrae would be a great stunt double! His 2nd degree blackbelt stunts with your lines…unstoppable!
The concert was fun. It was funny how Jay had the same reaction about association that I did. We both wanted to be in yours or find one similar. Too bad we have to stay at our new home for at least 3 years or else we have to pay back the $8K of stimulous $$.
I remember at my last work we had some summer schedule where you worked 1 extra house Monday-Thursday and got every other Friday off. It was great! I bet you love not having to figure out coverage or taking time off for your appointments.
Well then the obvious solution for the next 3 years is to come visit us! =)
They don’t offer 4/10 schedules for my position cuz it doesn’t help to stay there longer when court’s not in session, or to miss a day when court IS in session and have it undermanned. I like the day off, but Mr. W wants me to stop setting appointments on those days. “That’s what sick days are for!”