Thu 1 Sep 2011
Active Allie, Active Mommy & Daddy
Posted by cindy under Fertility , Recreation at 3:19 pm[6] Comments
Monday brought me to Week 28 of my pregnancy, so I started recording “kick-counts” at my OB’s direction. The object is to see how long it takes Allie to move 10 times. If she takes longer than 2 hours to move 10 times, I’ve been instructed to call the hospital. “An active baby is a healthy baby,” my OB had sung.
Monday, it took her about 13 minutes to jolt me 10 times. Tuesday, under 10 minutes. Wednesday, under 10 minutes. She must be healthy. 😛 Her movements are still relatively gentle, mostly taps. She’d only brought me pain once last week when she did something weird that felt like she was jabbing me out my right side. We were at Maggie’s progressive dinner fundraiser with Edgar and Ruby and I straightened up, giving her as much room as possible, and she stopped.
Speaking of Maggie’s progressive dinner last Saturday, it was fun this year like it was the last time we went, and Edgar and Ruby enjoyed themselves on their first progressive dinner. Mr. W and I, learning from our engorgement last year, paced ourselves and didn’t overeat this time. I wasn’t able to drink this time, so being the kind man that my husband is, he made sure he had enough alcohol for the both of us. What a sacrifice on his part. =P
Monday, Mr. W and I both took the afternoon off work so we could go to my dental appointment at 1pm in Pasadena. After the appointment we explored a new-to-us VIP-style theatre called Gold Class Cinemas. Mr. W had a $75 gift card from his coworker, which we figured would be plenty to pay for our movie tickets and a dinner there. This theatre is larger and fancier than the VIP theatre we’re used to going to near home, the service is excellent, food was pretty good, but after 2 tickets for “Our Idiot Brother” (wait for the rental), two specialty savory martinis for Mr. W, truffle fries, flatbread pizza for me, and 3 filet mignon sliders for Mr. W, we were out an additional $60 + tip. “This movie cost $150,” Mr. W said incredulously. I had to laugh. Our evening continued with a walk around an outdoor mall nearby the theatre, and a visit to Eddie & Michelle’s home, where we got to see their Paul Gauguin cruise photos. We reminisced about our cruise as we saw their pictures and listened to their stories.
Yesterday, our marriage turned the ripe old age of 3 years. I had some fun banter with friends on the social networking site about what to get Mr. W. 3 years is leather (traditional) or glass (modern), according to Claudio. After much back-and-forth, Claudio and I decided the perfect gift would be a gift certificate for getting a hearing aid (it’ll improve our marriage when he can actually hear the sound of my melodious voice instead of my having to constantly repeat myself after his “I’m sorry, what?”s), gift certificate for getting glasses (it’s glass! and it’ll improve our marriage if he can see me clearly and read my expressions of irritation from having to repeat myself too many times), and a leather wallet for all the money he has collected after being with me (Asian –> thrifty). A female coworker disagreed with the gifts, romantic as they are, and said, “I have the perfect gift: you may allow him to continue worshipping you as the goddess that you are. That’s what I get my boyfriend – my continued indulgence of his presence.” I ended up getting Mr. W the latter suggested item. He got me the same thing.
We had a nice low-key evening, dropping by a local Elephant Bar on our way home to share a shrimp noodle in lobster sauce entree and a giant slice of mud pie made with Starbucks kona coffee ice cream, and caught up on the latest episode of “True Blood.” The celebration continues tonight, as we have our second annual co-anniversary dinner with Tom and Maggie. We’re meeting at Andrei’s Conscious Cuisine after work.
I headed over here to see if you were talking about your mom’s lecture about body privacy. I don’t understand. It’s an ultrasound. Was she referring to the pictures you posted from your photography session?
Happy Anniversary!! The shrimp noodle in lobster sauce sounds HEAVENLY!!! Right up my alley!
Tom got me a leather phone holder to clip onto my jeans when we go for walks with dogs.(? OK- I guess I must have needed that and not known it) I have to try it out still. I got him the gift of stars…not sure how that fits into the classic gifts. I just knew if fit into this year perfectly. Had fun with you two! You sure look great!!!
Flat Coke – I haven’t seen or spoken to my mom since the ultrasounds were posted a couple of days ago, and I haven’t heard from her, either. I’m not sure what conversation you’re referring to.
Thanks for the anniversary wishes! Do you guys have an Elephant Bar in TN you could order the dish at? (bad grammar)
Maggie – you two are way more romantic than we are. haha! the evening of the anniversary we chatted casually about how we didn’t get each other anything, and I said I didn’t care to do a big “celebration” meal because if there were some place special I wanted to try, we’d just go do it anytime we wanted to. He said same thing with gifts; if there were something either of us wanted, we would’ve just bought it already, and if we didn’t buy it, we didn’t really want it. And we agreed we liked that about ourselves. 🙂 Besides, we continued, we have our annual anniversary dinners with our wedding twins.
It was fun last nite! I hope we didn’t contribute to Tom’s blood pressure. Mr. W was SO HAPPY after his 3 drinks and the evening hanging with you two, he leapfrogged over some low posts and touched all the statues and art (and a palm tree) on our way back to the car.
We had a blast! That place was awesome. Tom was happy and as serene as he gets going home. I love that he is really throwing himself into eating better instead of fighting it. We aren’t big for gifts either. I hate a forced gift. Hope that fab hubby of yours didn’t hurt anything.
I went back to your social networking post and realized you were talking about the pregnancy photos, not the ultrasound photos your mother was upset about. I was trying to figure out what was so personal about the ultrasound photos that would hinder modesty.
Maggie – it is definitely a blessing that Tom’s taking his eating seriously. a lot of men go into denial and eat almost suicidally.
Mr. W didn’t “hurt anything.” Lucky, considering he could’ve fallen on his face during his child-like leaps.
Flat Coke – yes, my mom had an initial bad reaction to my 16-week pregnancy photos. she won’t anymore, since I’ve blocked her from the album, along with all her friends, relatives, offspring of her friends and relatives, anyone who may go back and tell her they saw my pregnancy photos. I wasn’t even indecent in those photos, but this way I spare her any embarrassment as people she knows won’t see them, either.