Tue 22 May 2012
She’s A Big Girl Now! (In More Ways Than One)
Posted by cindy under Baby Care at 10:49 am[5] Comments
So yesterday was pretty crappy as far as electricity was concerned. The power outage was scheduled for 9a-2:30p. It went out between 9a and 9:30a, in the middle of Allie’s first nap, so I had to go by hearing to estimate when she was awake. Sometimes Allie wakes and plays on her own for awhile before making a noise, so it’s possible she was down less than I’d thought, but the first time I heard her for her first 2 naps was at about the 1 hour point. The electricity didn’t get restored until 5:20p or so, and I was in near panic at that point, freaked out that all of my frozen breastmilk would thaw and go bad. I was already making plans to buy formula for the months it would take me to pump out enough for Allie to drink during the day again. Thankfully, I didn’t open the freezer or fridge, and both Christi (flip flop girl) and college roommie Diana texted me that as long as the milk is partially frozen, i.e. it has some ice crystals in it, it can be refrozen. Mr. W had to open the freezer for me to check after he got home, because I couldn’t bring myself to do it. Turned out all our popsicles were fine and the bags of milk were still rock solid. Thank you, advanced fridge!!
Also yesterday, Allie had her 6-month checkup. Her regular pediatrician ended up being unavailable of her original appointment, so a medical staffmember called me to reschedule. We ended up rescheduling to yesterday, 2 days before her 6-month birthday. I asked if timing issues would exist for anything Allie needed to get done that had to wait until after 6 months, and the staff person said no. Well, turned out she was wrong. Allie has 6-month vaccinations that she couldn’t get early. The doctor we saw wasn’t her regular pediatrician anyway, so I didn’t know why I had to reschedule if I could’ve just seen someone else, but it was the doctor who saw Allie when she was sick, and we liked her. This doctor explained that the reason the vaccinations have to wait until after 6 months is because some schools are so stringent about the timing of periodic vaccinations that if they see she didn’t have the required shots within her 6 month time period, they’d make her take the series of vaccinations all over again. So we have to take Allie after work next Tuesday for vaccinations alone. I hope she doesn’t have a reaction like she did last time. 🙁 Anyway, here are Allie’s lovely 6-month stats:
* height: 28 inches
* weight: 16 lbs 9.8 ounces
I had expected to get a printout of her numbers, but turned out it wasn’t among the information in my paperwork. I don’t remember her head circumference, but remember seeing it went a little higher on the percentile curve. “That’s good,” the doctor said, “It means her brain is still actively growing.” I don’t remember what percentile her weight is, but it’s probably still within the 40%s. Her height was something the doctor was interested in showing me on the percentile curve on the computer. “Look at this,” she said, laughing, pointing at the “x” waaay above the lines drawn on the graph. She’s still above 99th percentile on height.
“She’s going to outgrow me by junior high, isn’t she?”
“Yes. But somewhere between ages 13 and 16, even though she’s taller than you are, she will still know that you are mom and you are the boss.” That’s a big statement. It says that 1.) Allie will have outgrown me between ages 13 and 16; 2.) Allie will think she’s the boss after age 16. I pouted. I was also advised that I may want to lower Allie’s crib mattress, because she’s so strong that she only needs to learn how to pull herself up and she’ll be out of the crib. I pouted again. I already have a hard time lowering her into her crib as it is, cuz I wasn’t blessed with Allie’s gift of height.
The pediatrician was surprised we haven’t started Allie on solids, yet. She said between 4 and 6 months would’ve been fine, but at this point, “Start now!” So Mr. W came home a little early, Allie was freshly up from her late-afternoon nap and just at her expected next meal at 4:30p, so it was at the advised time of “hungry but well-rested so not cranky.” We mixed 1 teaspoon of iron-fortified organic rice cereal (flakey and powdery! it pretty much melted away) with 3 teaspoons of breast milk. It was good use of about an ounce of breast milk that Jayne had left over from her measured feedings last Friday, sitting in a vial in the fridge, quickly becoming less cold thanks to the longer-than-anticipated power outage. The result was pretty thin consistency, which I was told it’s supposed to be to start Allie off in learning to take food from a spoon. Boy, those baby spoons don’t hold much at all, which made the whole ordeal pretty drippy. Allie did really well, though! She first kept trying to reach for the spoon with her hand, so we had to hold her hand down. The moment it was near her mouth she opened her lips and accepted the tip of the spoon. I was told to let her sucking reflex suck the liquid off the spoon, and it didn’t quite work that way. She was dribbly for awhile until she realized she recognizes the flavor of the milk. After that, she would lunge for the spoon with her mouth wide open. It was messy down her chin, but nowhere near as messy as I’d expected it to be. We put a giant food bib on her that may have gotten 2-3 drips on it. Allie was apparently ready for solids, because she swallowed just fine, no tongue-thrust reflex. This may explain her recent favorite thing to do with her mouth, which is open and close it repeatedly like she’s chewing.
Mr. W thought it’d be a good time to introduce a sippy cup to her, too, so we put the remainder of the breast milk from the vial into a sippy cup and gave that to her. Her mouth went right onto the sipper part, but she didn’t close her lips around it to suck. She just chewed on it like she does with her teething toys. Since it was the awesome Playtex sippy that doesn’t drip or leak, she got nothing out of it and probably doesn’t even know there’s food on the other side of the sipper. Mr. W finally unscrewed and removed the sippy lid and fed the rest to her like a cup. She took that better. She’d been watching us drink from cups and had tried to emulate us anytime she got her hands on a cup. Good thing I only bought one two-pack of the sippy cups, she may skip that stage. We got Allie’s food experiences on 8 minutes of video, which is apparently 2 gigabytes. Yikes. Anyway, I nursed Allie immediately after that food experience. I guess we’re supposed to introduce her to solids before she fills up by nursing so that she’d be hungry enough to be interested in trying the food the new way, and THEN give her the usual breastfeeding session. I was a little pensive she’d reject the breast, now that she’s found she can gulp milk faster through a cup, and she did seem a little confused at first on the breast, but a few seconds later and she was nursing as usual. We’ll be feeding her rice cereal in the evening for about a week, and then slowly introducing other solids to her later on. I’m excited!
** Addendum: Her head circumference is 44 cm. I guess it was on one of the papers, but I didn’t know at the time what “HD” referred to (I guess it’s “head diameter?”).
Sippy cups will become your best friends! They figure out how regular cups work pretty quickly, but actually being able to use one without spilling it everywhere is a LONG way off. Usually, they just lose concentration of what they are holding and dump the contents out somewhere.
And when she gets more mobile, she will start carrying it around with her, and it is pretty obvious to see why a real cup won’t work for that;-)
I love the sippy cup after my kid was 18 months. That’s how she drinks water around the house and in the car without making a mess. I also leave that within her reach at night so she can get a drink of water if she needs to in the middle of the night, especially when the heater is on and makes her throat dry
Oh! Okay, I’ll hold off on tossing the sippy cups out the window. The papers from the doctor’s office said to introduce “a cup” to the baby at the first sign of a tooth or at 6 months, and I thought they meant grownup cups.
it might take her a while (months) to figure out the sippy cup. instead of taking off the lid altogether, try, removing the valve so that the milk drips out of the spout more freely. kyden never really used a sippy cuz, but that’s cuz he chewed the spout off of those things. he went straight to a straw cup — but still a no-spill option.
as for solids, i’d actually recommend nursing before feeding solids. at this point, the purpose of the rice cereal is to get her familiar with the spoon. in a few weeks, the small amounts of purees fruit and veggies will just expose her to new tastes and textures. she should still be getting most of her nutrition from you. in other words, don’t let her get full on solids before nursing.
and as for her head, i’m pretty sure HD doesn’t stand for head diameter. a diameter of 44cm would definitely make her a bobble head 😛
if you’re interested in percentiles, hers are:
– weight 66%ile
– length 99%ile
– head 89%ile
she IS a big girl! 🙂
flip flop girl – Oh! I didn’t think of the valve removal from the sippy cup. That WOULD resolve the issue. Mr. W said he put water in there and fed it to her, she sucked it, then made a huge face and rejected the cup. I wasn’t aware of this, but this could be why she won’t suck on a sippy anymore. She’s afraid to get a mouthful of yucky fluid she’s unfamiliar with.
I’d always thought I was supposed to nurse first and THEN supplement with a feeding, but the booklet I got from the appointment said specifically to feed solids first during the introduction period, because if the baby is full, she won’t be interested in trying the solids. Now that she understands the spoon, I’ll probably switch over to the sequence you suggested.
Uh-oh…maybe I have a bobble head! I wonder what 44 cm refers to, then. Thanks for the percentiles! I tried to look it up but couldn’t find anything specific. 😀