I’d try winking, but what if she wasn’t into me? Then it’d just be creepy and she’d go home and blog about the weirdo that winked at her earlier and how freaked out she is that he’s out on her porch still winking. …*wink*
The wink should be appropriately timed such that it can be played off. You can tell a joke and then add a wink, or you can wink at her from across the room to give an acknowledgment of something, like you would a nod or a smile. Or you can toss a wink in her direction before you turn and depart, so that the last contact she gets of you is that wink. Ah, the wiley wink.
But never stand outside her porch staring at her from her window winking spasmodically.
Oh, here’s a good place for a wink. When you catch her staring at you or spacing out at you, when she doesn’t know you’re looking. You catch her and wink, thereby catching her off-guard. And then you just leave it alone. Let it marinate a little in her head. She’s probably into you if she was staring at you, and if she was merely curious, now she’s intrigued. If she’s staring at you with a sneer or a look of disgust, however, don’t wink. Unless you’re one of those people who like to mess with others’ minds.
I never think to wink back, and by the time I do, it’d be way after the fact and I’d just look all lame. Plus, the few times I’ve initiated a wink, they always happen to turn away right then and miss it. So what’s the point?
I AGREE! 🙂 Did you wink back?
I’m usually too busy spacing out at the wink to process the motor command to wink back. That, and I don’t have a habit of winking at people.
I’d try winking, but what if she wasn’t into me? Then it’d just be creepy and she’d go home and blog about the weirdo that winked at her earlier and how freaked out she is that he’s out on her porch still winking. …*wink*
The wink should be appropriately timed such that it can be played off. You can tell a joke and then add a wink, or you can wink at her from across the room to give an acknowledgment of something, like you would a nod or a smile. Or you can toss a wink in her direction before you turn and depart, so that the last contact she gets of you is that wink. Ah, the wiley wink.
But never stand outside her porch staring at her from her window winking spasmodically.
Oh, here’s a good place for a wink. When you catch her staring at you or spacing out at you, when she doesn’t know you’re looking. You catch her and wink, thereby catching her off-guard. And then you just leave it alone. Let it marinate a little in her head. She’s probably into you if she was staring at you, and if she was merely curious, now she’s intrigued. If she’s staring at you with a sneer or a look of disgust, however, don’t wink. Unless you’re one of those people who like to mess with others’ minds.
I LOVE when hot guys wink! I’d totally wink back, except I usually look more like I’m having an eye spasm or have something stuck in my eye, hahaha.
I never think to wink back, and by the time I do, it’d be way after the fact and I’d just look all lame. Plus, the few times I’ve initiated a wink, they always happen to turn away right then and miss it. So what’s the point?
“Let it marinate a little in her head.”
BEST MOVIE QUOTE EVER.
That’s not a movie quote!
oh my gawd, BEST USE OF A MOVIE EXPRESSION, EVER!