Tue 5 Feb 2008
I’m working away…but I’m here to do a quick status report of my projects.
1.) Roofing – My association treasurer’s letter “to clarify the secretary’s letter” arrived yesterday. He explained the situation to the homeowners about having to pay for my roof, and brought up a good point: if my roof had been replaced 2 years ago when everyone else’s roofs were replaced, everyone would’ve had to pay an extra $300 THEN, so it really doesn’t make a difference whether they pay then or now because either way everyone has to pay for my roof. I got the 2nd estimate yesterday, too. It was only $200 less than the first estimate. So I’m gonna compare the 2 contracts and see who gives me the more bang for my buck.
2.) Parents’ Trust – Vanessa’s a huge advocate of setting up a Living Trust, because she found out the hard way when her dad passed away without having done one, that there are major messy, extensive and expensive probate issues that they’re still trying to clean up. College roommie Diana sent me a Living Trust format which I customized the best I could and this past weekend, Vanessa (who’s a legal notary until February 8, which is in 3 days) came with me to meet my parents, have lunch with us, and she notarized the Trust and Deed for them. I had a judge look the papers over but he had some concerns, so he referred me to a good Probate attorney for document review. I submitted my documents to his office today and set up an appointment for Valentine’s Day (the first open appointment).
3.) House Hunting – No significant progress. Just keeping an eye on the market and on the places we’d like to live. House prices are still dropping (woohoo!) and more nice houses are coming up for sale (woohoo!) and interest rates just dropped another half percent last week (woohoo!).
4.) Wedding – I got my photographer booked. Josh, my buddy from jujitsu, is gonna do it. He’s a new Orange County Sheriff but was a professional photographer, so he’s, like, friend/photographer/security all wrapped up in one! Talk about multi-tasking! Plus, he’s going to give Mr. W all the raw digital images he (and his photographer assistant) will take and Mr. W likes to play with Photoshop, so Mr. W will make our wedding album. I’m pretty sure I’m way ahead of schedule; all there is left to do as far as vendors go is to find a florist for our bouquets.
5.) Taxes – Done and mailed out yesterday. Why wait if I’m getting money back? I just have my parents’ taxes left to do.
6.) Exercise – My gym trainee and I are back in the gym. Yesterday we did upper body and today we did lower body. I’m sore, but I guess that’s a good sign. Aside from being a little weaker, it doesn’t look like my 2-week hiatus did much damage. Whew!
Okay, I guess this update wasn’t that swift.
yay things are lookin’ up. as for me, i’m bloated today. it’s all very sexy, and i’m sure u wanted to know.
awesome!!! So glad that progress is being made!…AND you sound a lot now that you are not sleep deprived and back in the gym! 🙂
Thanks for the update. I don’t think you’re too early getting a photographer. Good deal on the trust–those are so important. My parents have everything setup in case something happens. It’ll make it easier for my sister and me. Your perfect house is out there!!
a – Bridesmaid Sandy once told me our freshman year in college, “Guys like a girl with some softness and curves. They don’t wanna hug a bag of bones with hair! That’s like hugging that gross cryptkeeper from Tales from the Crypt!” So yes, the bloating IS very sexy.
k – I’m still not sleeping thru the nite, but I do feel better about myself now that I’m back at the gym.
Flat Coke – I don’t think I’m too early, either. But I do know that things are taking care of themselves and I’m ahead of schedule. I already have in hand the invitations and guest favors; the bridal gown and bridesmaid dresses are on order; the venue, photographer, catering company are booked; the wedding cake is included with the catering and we have a tasting appointment for March already set; the ring’s off being sized. So it’s just the men’s tuxes (Mr. W’s on that), florist, and DJ left up in the air.
I know our perfect house is out there, but I don’t wanna pay $1.5 mil for it!
That’s good that the roofers are not dramatically different in their estimates. I hope that all works out soon and you can get your roof fixed before the next storm.
And I had so much fun with you on Sunday! You parents are super cool and the place we went to go eat at was super yummy! I told my sister about it and she can’t wait to come down and try it! I might pick some up on the day we clean out my Dad’s garage.
I remember you telling me about Josh taking the photos. It will be good to see him. It’s been over a year!
Mr. W’s been on my butt about not picking a roofer and getting on it. But I need to compare the 2 estimates still, and so far i don’t know if my neighbors are paying so I’m a little scared to have people come do work they’re not gonna get paid for.
Thanks for helping us on Sunday!
Yeah, I miss Josh, too. I can’t remember the last time I saw him. Seems like forever ago. It was probably at his graduation from OC Sheriffs Academy.