Thu 5 Jun 2008
Poor Mr. W. He’s cranky. He just went to bed warning me I’d better not keep him up. We had a very productive Wednesday. We’d applied for our marriage license online and made an appointment to sign and pick it up at our lunch hour yesterday. Those suckers are expensive! $61.50 just to get the County’s permission to officially forfeit our respective freedom and sovereignty. (“And you magically become property!” my head supervisor said.) And to think, when same-sex couples are allowed to legally marry after mid-June, the Registrar-Recorder offices in California will be flooded with even more people, cash in hand. To capitalize a little more, there were signs all over the offices saying if we’d like a photo to memorialize the event of getting our license, it’s $10.
After he dropped me back off at my work, Mr. W went to his third acupuncture appointment. He said it’s working, the pain has dramatically lessened and the area around his buttocks have stopped hurting, but the deeper layers of muscles are still in need of therapy. So today, from what I heard, the needles went even deeper. *heebie jeebies*
When he was done with acupuncture, he came over to my house, picked me up, and we went to his place to pull an all-nighter stuffing envelopes and preparing our wedding invitations for mailing. Even tho we joked that it would be an all-nighter, I really didn’t think it would take very long. I figured he’d design the informational insert as I typed addresses in the labels, we’d print it all, cut and assemble, do an assembly line thing. We started around 7:30pm after a Costco run and worked until about 1:30am. I rather enjoyed myself; the fruits of our labor were very aesthetically pleasing and the methodical assembly made me feel very productive. I can’t say Mr. W had as much fun, though, judging by his sighs and grunts and occasional complaints. Nevertheless, they’re ready for mailing tomorrow. I walked up to Mr. W’s son and hand-served him our very first guest invitation. (No I didn’t wake him up. Yes he’s still up right now as I write this.) He excitedly examined the envelope, its labels, and carefully tore the envelope open. Pulling out the contents, he made exclamations about how nice everything looked, impressed we’d put everything together ourselves in an evening. Yay! That’s a whole lot off our plates! *checking stress meter level* Still low.
Congratulations – one more step done! 🙂
it’s nice that Mr W helped out w/ the invites and all…I, as the bridesmaid, many a times have had to help the bride as their hubbies wouldn’t or didn’t want to do it…that or they didn’t trust their husbands to assemble the invites, ha 🙂
yea ours was an ordeal too, but we tried to do everything on schedule so we weren’t too stressed.
k – I kept telling him to go to bed as it was way past his [ridiculously early] bedtime, but he opted to stay up and toil, albeit unhappily. When I got to work today it turned out that my judge pulled an all-nighter to get out a judgment on another case, and my reporter pulled a near all-nighter filling some transcript orders. I guess everybody was loopy in my courtroom today.
anny – You pre-made a schedule? I think schedules scare me, they feel like such looming deadlines. I just try to do everything as reasonably quickly as possible. I think we’re doing pretty well. Your wedding binder/organizer helped a lot! =)
I’m proud of Mr. W for staying up helping with the invitations, afterall it’s HIS wedding too huh?
aw i’m glad the binder helped out.
i know wutcha means about the stringency of schedules, but i just followed the checklist and timelines on theknot.com and it saved my life!
How exciting! I’m gonna go home and search my mailbox to see if it’s there. I remember a couple months back I got a sneak preview of them. tee hee!
Mr. W gets tons of kudo points for helping you!
Flat Coke – yeah, good point!
anny – Vicky referred me to an online timeline once and it made me cry and delayed my wedding planning 6 months!
busykitty – I’m so excited for people to start getting them! I wish I could’ve attached a tiny webcam to all of them so I can watch everyone open them! Okay, I’m way more excited about my invites than anyone else would ever be. The webcam broadcasts would just disappoint me. “He doesn’t look excited. Does he look excited to you? His eyebrows didn’t even lift. What the hell.”
Haha! That’s would be interesting and then you can show peple’s reaction at your wedding. j/k I got the invite the next day and Jay and I filled out our meal preferences and I keep forgetting to bring it with me to work to send out. I’m writing myself a note right now to remind myself.