Wed 4 May 2011
My prenatal gym trainer asked me yesterday how many times I’d worked out since I’d seen him last week. I drew a blank, then realized it was because aside from a day of pilates, I hadn’t worked out. My week has been filled with a variety of doctors and patients instead.
First, a vet: Dodo’s been scratching and pawing at his ears, and altho I Q-tip it to clean it out, the tips come out purplish-brown each time and he’s been shaking his head anytime I graze his ear. So I decided I need medication. Yup, two ear infections, bacterial and a touch of yeast. I was given (or rather, allowed to purchase at high cost) ear drops and was instructed to administer drops in his ears twice a day for two weeks. Meanwhile, the vet flushed out Dodo’s ears really well. Dodo did not appreciate that and sulked in his cat condo when he got home:
Next, an urgent care visit: Mr. W started having a lower back pain last Wednesday, and he had an accupuncture appointment Thursday, so he told the accupuncturist about his complaint. She supposedly treated him for that with needles in his knee and somewhere else I can’t recall. She not only didn’t cure it, but it got WAY worse. By Friday he had overall body discomfort, his skin and scalp hurt, he had a headache, and a fever started. All of that was secondary to the increased back pain that became so aggravated he couldn’t stand or sit or lean by Sunday, AND he was having difficulty urinating. Unable to sleep the past nights from pain, fever and discomfort, he finally agreed to go to Urgent Care on Sunday. Given the symptoms and confirmed fever, the doctor took a urine sample to check for a urinary tract/bladder infection, which came out negative. The doctor also ordered a urine culture anyway, to see if bacteria or flora or something would grow so they could figure out what the infection is. In the meantime, Mr. W was prescribed a 2-week course of Cipro antibiotics to kill whatever may be causing the symptoms, as the culture wouldn’t be done for a few days, and was instructed to call his regular doctor on Wednesday (today) if he doesn’t feel better. When we went to the lab, turned out the doctor had also ordered a urine sample to test for the STD chlamydia (which probably wasn’t mentioned in front of me so as to not breach patient confidentiality, and who expects an honest answer if a doctor asked a patient in front of the patient’s wife, “Have you had extramarital sex in the past few months?”). Since the appointment on Sunday, Mr. W’s discomfort and back pain did not alleviate, he continued to not sleep well, not pee well, and his fever raged on. He’d take a few Tylenols to bring the fever down, and it’d work, then the Tylenol would wear off and immediately his temperature would shoot up again. My mom and prenatal gym trainer both suspect kidney stones. (This is a primary reason I gave up drinking sodas years ago, among some other health reasons.) He took both Monday and Tuesday off work, althought he’s back at work today. I wanted him to see his regular doctor today, but he’s being stubborn and he *thinks* his fever broke and he’s feeling less agony. I’ll see if I could convince him to make an appointment for this evening.
My first OB visit: Now for some better doctor visits. I had my first OB visit with Kaiser yesterday. The doctor was very nice and Mr. W liked him a lot. He studied my blood test results, ordered some other routine tests, and did a vaginal ultrasound and physical checkup. Turns out I’m too early in the pregnancy for the anemia to be of the baby’s doing, so I AM anemic. He encouraged me to supplement my prenatals with iron, so I’m back to my vegetarian liquid supplement Floradix (which I LOVE). I lost some weight so I’m actually a pound less now than pre-pregnancy which I was concerned about, but the OB wasn’t concerned. He said I’m healthy and way ahead of his other patients, with whom he has to spend hours explaining proper nutrition, as the trend of pregnancy problems in the OC is overeating, not undereating. The nutritional needs of the baby right now are minimal.
So now the fun stuff: ultrasound. At my angle laying down I couldn’t see the screen in detail, but I did see that the baby was now filling up the previous black void in the uterus. And then this conversation:
OB: This kid is going to TOWN!
Me: What do you mean?
OB: It’s moving around so much that I can’t get a still picture to take a measurement.
[Seeing a profile, then a back, then a butt, then feet. Then a head, a heartbeat, then feet. Then profile, then back, then hands.]
Me: I thought that was YOU doing that, moving the ultrasound around!
OB: No, it’s the kid. Watch. [Holding the ultrasound still. Seeing the front, then the profile, then the back, then feet.]
Me: Does this mean it’s gonna be a kicky kid?
OB: Well, it certainly has that possibility.
Me: Can you tell where the placenta is attached?
OB: It’s hard to tell that right now, but it seems to be anterior…but let me get this measurement first, it’s important.
[Mr. W takes out his phone and starts filming the screen, getting the following footage after the kid stopped dancing quite so much.]
So the good news is, Riley’s developmentally right on schedule, and the placenta does not seem to be over the cervix, which is how it looked in the last ultrasound video. And, he’s sure alive. I thought it was adorable he was all happy and playing in there (which I can’t feel), but Mr. W in his sickly stupor put a damper on it. “I don’t think it’s a good thing that he’s rolling around so much. There’s still a lot of room in there for him to move around, what if he wraps himself up and gets tangled in the umbilical cord?” WAAAAH!!! Well, the doctor didn’t seem concerned. :/
Tell negative Nancy over there (aka Mr W) to hush up about umbilical cord stuff and enjoy watching Riley dance. How cute!!! I think he was just showing off for you guys 🙂
Did you get any urine results back today? Hope they find out what is wrong with him. And I can only hope none of it is related to his heart.
Hope Dodo get better soon. I wouldn’t want drops in my ears, either!
If I ever have to take iron I’m going to look up the liquid you mentioned. I’ve never been able to take vitamins with iron in them, they hurt my stomach. Thankfully all the new vita-gummies are iron-free!
wow, doc visits for the entire family! dodo sure does look pissed. i would have thought that he would have felt better and be in a better mood. or at least he could have faked it for the photo.
so what’s the word on mr. w? whatever he has sounds awful, but at least he’s feeling a bit better. hope he’s back to 100% soon.
glad you like your OB. did you ask why you had to do the glucose screen so early and if you’ll have to repeat it at 24-28 weeks? btw, even if your placenta is over your cervix at this point, it will continue to move as your uterus expands, and it won’t be an issue in a couple of months 🙂
Flat Coke – I’ll let Negative Nancy read your message himself if he ever comes on my blog again. 🙂
We went back to the dr after work and yes, the urine culture came back negative. His urine (and therefore bladder, kidneys, urethra) is not the problem. This 2nd doctor put his symptoms together and thinks it’s a prostate infection that’s squeezing his urethra smaller. He says the course of treatment for a prostate infection is the same as what he’s getting for the pre-diagnosed UTI (10-day course of Cipro) so it is being addressed properly anyway. Mr. W thinks he feels a little better now.
Dodo seems to be doing well on the drops. He stopped shaking his head when I press on his right ear, altho the left ear (with the worse infection) still bothers him. CRAP! I just realized I forgot to medicate him before I left for work this morning, cuz I didn’t see him! ARGH.
I highly recommend Floradix. Non-binding, easily-digested, I’ve had it on an empty stomach with no issue. It’s kinda like syrup. One serving is 10ml, which I just drink straight (it’s less than a mouthful), or you can mix it into a beverage.
flip flop – Dodo never likes being messed with, and that includes picking him up. After his ears were flushed, the vet brought him back to the room, opened his cage, and for the first time EVER, Dodo voluntarily went into his own cage. He’d rather go into his cat carrier than deal with us! That said a lot about how mad he was.
See above re Mr. W’s latest.
I didn’t think to ask about the timing of the glucose screen. He just said it was negative and moved on to the blood test results on the anemia and I didn’t think about it beyond that.
Yes, I read that about the moving placenta, but you know how first-time pregnancies are…paranoid city. 🙂
Poor Dodo! I want to go over there and give him extra lovin.
And right when I started reading Mr. W’s symptoms, I thought kidney stones. Next time apply heat to his lower back or have him jim in the shower and have the hot water hit that lower back and that will help out with the pain.
And love how you ended with good doc news. I believe you baby will be healthy. You are taking great care of yourself, so everything should work out just fine. 🙂
Come on over! Dodo always loves visits from his Auntie Nessa!
The 2nd doctor suggested kidney stones but then ruled it out because Mr. W’s pain was persistent and annoying, but not sharp and level 10/10 painful as others with kidney stones describe. Plus, they would expect blood in the urine but the urinalysis (or whatever they call it) came out clean.
Thanks, I’m hoping for a healthy bouncing baby, too! Of course, he’s already got the bouncing part down.
I’ve delivered plenty of babies with a cord around their neck or even a knot in the cord! It’s rare that it causes a problem than can’t be dealt with during delivery. Besides, think of it like this. Take a six foot long rope, tie it around your neck, now tie the other end to a door knob. What happens if you run as fast as you can away from the door? Yeah, that would be bad. Now tie the other end to a different door knob. Say one on the inside of a closet. Now run as fast as you can. See what I’m trying to say? Now I open the closet door, but before I let you out, I slip a finger under the rope and slide it off of your neck. Sweet, sweet freedom! Did this help? Or just scare you?
No, it didn’t scare me. I think what Mr. W’s afraid of, aside from the potential noose, is if Riley pirouettes and winds himself up like a spool.
But the finger-under-the-rope is interesting. How would you know to do that? Do they have an ultrasound going at the same time as delivery?
Ben had the cord wrapped around his neck. Made delivery difficult, but was ok other than that.
I was low on iron too. I’m assuming that was what made me crave liverwurst. I made sandwiches of it for snacks and LOVED it. Can’t imagine why else I could tolerate it.
You look fabulous by the way. 😀
You check every neck during the delivery, by feel and by sight. Another reason why slow delivery = good.
my friend just delivered a baby whose cord was wrapped around his neck 3 times!!! sounds scary, but the baby was never in distress — heart rate was strong through the entire delivery!
i like bat’s closet analogy =)
Maggie – I don’t think we eat as much red meat as the average American. I’m not at the point of liverwurst yet, tho. If I get there I’ll let you know. 🙂
You always look fab!
Bat – okay, okay, I’ll try to slow it down. 10 pushes instead of 6.
kyden – eek! that DOES sound scary! yes, Bat makes fun analogies.
bacterial and a touch of yeast. hmmm, that’s sexy, dodo.
Don’t tell him I told you.